IT'S the wise person who knows you can spark someone’s interest without game-playing. Jerking around his or her emotions is not okay!
But as reported in your Sun, it’s definitely okay to use little ploys like MIC starlet Ashley James did. What’s the purpose of a few oops-I-didn’t-realise-I-was-so-gorgeous shots of herself in a gold micro-bikini? To show David Walliams what he’s missing.
Love and relationships are hardly ever straightforward. And I have a saying that a little bit of mystery creates a great deal of interest.
So if that guy or girl isn’t paying you the attention you deserve, try these seven steps to make yourself unforgettable:
Keep Them Interested Tip No. 1/
Don’t reveal everything – Where’s the law saying you must tell them where you’ve been and who you’ve seen? When chatting to them just say you’ve been ‘busy’. Not knowing what you’ve been up to creates all-important mystery. You’re that busy man or woman they’d better book time in with!
Keep Them Interested Tip No. 2/
Don’t have all the time in the world - When they ring, even if you’re loving the flirtatious phone call, be the one who calls time. Keep it simple - and vague – say you’ve got to get on with something. Leave them hanging after a fun and flirty convo and they can’t wait to have more of you.
Keep Them Interested Tip No. 3/
Turn up the flirt factor - Research shows those skilled at flirting tend to get their man or woman. Good flirting makes that person feel great. Just know the difference between flirting and in-your-face sexual innuendo. In messages hint at things like ‘being in the mood’ – just don’t say the mood for what.
Keep Them Interested Tip No. 4/
Devise your sexual signature technique - Take one thing you’re pretty good at and make it your sexual signature. If you’re a guy who’s good at oral, try ‘worshipping at the altar’ technique. Kneel between her legs, gently pull her hips towards you, and explore every bit of her clitoral zone. If you’re a girl who’s good at giving him a hand job,blow his mind by alternating your hands to give him different sensations. Five strokes with one hand, then changeover, etc.
Keep Them Interested Tip No. 5/
Become the object of their fantasy - Get them chatting about fantasies and put yourself centre stage in theirs. They’d like an office-based fantasy? Describe how you’re their new, very saucy, colleague. Say how you’d lure them into the photocopy room for a rampant romp.
Keep Them Interested Tip No. 6/
Tease to please – Do not give them everything they want in bed, straight off. If you’re in the middle of foreplay and they want to move on to full sex, tease them. If you’re the guy, enter her, but then playfully withdraw. If you’re the girl, let him enter but ditto, sexily suggest going back to foreplay or trying a different position. This makes them completely hot for you.
Keep Them Interested Tip No. 7/
Change things up – Whatever you do don’t fall in the trap of always using the same techniques. Research shows couples quite quickly do the same thing every time they slip between sheets. Surprise them, for example don’t start with the same foreplay technique - try something different.
If these don’t work, move on and find someone who’s as into you as you’re into them.
Dr Pam’s Position: Split the Whisker
An unforgettable position. She lies on her back while he kneels between her legs. He gently moves one of her legs onto his shoulder.
Once comfortable, he pulls her hips closer into his for penetration to start. Slow and easy thrusting gives fantastic sensations.
For extra pleasure: She slips a vibrator between their pubic bones and gently moves it back and forth for extra sensations.
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