Who doesn’t want their sex life to be easier? Whether you have children or work long hours - or both - sex seems so difficult!
One survey found nearly 80 per cent said they’d have more sex if it was just simpler. After all, you want some fun-time in bed and sex feels good!
But time and energy for it? Can’t blame you laughing at the thought of swinging from chandeliers as some sexperts would suggest.
For those of you who are time short (like I am) and/or lack energy here’s how to make it easy...
Easy Sex Tip No. 1: Use telly drama to kick-start desire
You’ve flopped in front of the telly watching a drama and two actors share a kissing scene.
Strike at that moment – cuddle up to your partner, stroke your hand down their thigh, and whisper how you’d like to get hot with him/her.
Just don’t tell them how much you fancy the leading man or woman – put your partner in the middle of the action.
Easy Sex Tip No. 2: Describe to them that ‘thing’ that really turns them on
You’re chatting on the phone or over a meal, time to drop the ‘turn-on bomb’.
Let’s say you and your partner loves oral sex. Innocently mention you were thinking of the last time they went down on you.
It’s amazing how planting that ‘turn-on bomb’ in their mind gets you both turned on quickly.
Easy Sex Tip No. 3: Pleasure chest
Be ready for the moment you both have energy, and sex will be much easier!
I’ve said it before, this is one of my fave tips, you must have your pleasure-chest stocked and ready.
It contains luscious lubricant, your fave sensual massage oil, handcuffs if you use them, blindfold, maybe a porn DVD, candles, etc. Bingo you’re ready to bang!
Easy Sex Tip No. 4: Favourite sexy outfit
Ditto, if you have that one outfit or sexy knicker-set you feel fantastic in, keep it washed and ready to wear.
If suddenly your partner gives you that look – yep that one - you know you can slip into the gear in seconds - no scramble to the bottom of the clothes-basket.
Wear your favourite sexy outfit
Wear your favourite sexy outfit Getty
Easy Sex Tip No. 5: Get rude with food
Having slices of pizza for dinner? Feed each other bites – the oozy, melted cheese is pretty darn sexy.
Having something chocolaty or creamy for dessert? Get ready to spoon yummy mouthfuls into each other’s mouths.
With a couple candles lit, bingo, you set the scene for getting in the mood.
Feed each other bites – the oozy, melted cheese is pretty darn sexy
Feed each other bites – the oozy, melted cheese is pretty darn sexy Getty
Dr Pam’s Position: Sofa Surfing
Keeping sex on ‘easy street’ means becoming a bit freer where you have it.
You’ve got comfy on the sofa (in front of that on-screen kiss), you don’t have to pick yourselves up and go to the bedroom.
Keeping a cosy blanket to hand means you can cuddle up and sofa-surf - he lies along the sofa and she goes on top. Or vice versa. Gentle thrusting can begin.
Or he sits back on the sofa and she sits back onto his lap for red hot action.
Get creative and you don’t even have to move rooms.
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